week 6

i was thinking about backhanded compliments and how to take them and if they mean anything. i've been told "if you stare at you long enough you're actually pretty" or "sneaky hot". do i chose to discredit this as an insult? but technically is it a compliment? because if i'm choosing to disregard it as an insult then i'm also disregarding a compliment. i think my final stance it to just not let what anyone says bother you - BUT back handed compliments are still a weird thing to try and process/understand